Why does the princess dress as a boy? Why does a girl cut her hair and run away? Why does a young woman throw her life away, entering a lethally dangerous world, to reject the marriage proposal she doesn’t want? Simply to escape the trap of being female in a male dominated society.
The struggle for an equal voice in our society is just as old as those Fairy Tales, if not older. Some are of the opinion that Campbell’s mythic Hero’s Journey is for men, exclusively, and to place a female in that role is ‘manning’ her. After centuries of waiting, women–in fiction and reality–are breaking free of the imposed roles of golden princess, mother goddess, and throne side trinket. We are becoming the Hero, because the hero is Human.
Movie and TV Producers don’t think it’s happening. Toy Producers don’t think it’s happening. Book Publishers don’t think it’s happening. Everywhere I look are people who don’t think it’s happening. Some Manufacturers see it, I think, but are sure to charge us more for the same product sold to men, while simultaneously paying us less.
Can you not see it? I see it in social media, dating practices, self-published books, and Sci-fi awards (including the backlashes). And it’s not just about the equality of genders; it’s equality for all the things a Human can be. (None so blind as those who will not see.)
I see the signs everywhere. The firm rock our culture is built on is shifting toward equality, moving like a tectonic plate. Gender politics pop up in every aspect of our lives, like sudden volcanos sprouting in open fields. The ground shakes, liquefying, and you either figure out how to float or sink down.
It’s a struggle, figuring out who you want to be as a gender. Some of us make mistakes, as many are quick to point out, fingering the most obvious cases of toxic feminism, confusion at gender fluidity, and concern over woman becoming too manlike. We are evolving, and that is a difficult process. Mistakes will be made, and hard lessons learned. (That’s just the tip, Honey. Lye back and get used to it.)
I don’t want to take away or suppress the masculine voice. I just want to be able to say, “Me, too. I have a story!” Equality is understanding we all have both masculine and feminine sides, and being allowed to express them as individuals is the evolved form of society.
It may feel like we are entering a new Era to you, but it’s been whispered to me my whole life. The earliest myths, Fairy Tales, and the stories we tell ourselves are all part of it. The voice is louder now, promising a better way, if we are strong enough. You can’t keep a segment of the population suppressed forever. All of the stories tell us… They rise. Always.
I don’t want to be your Queen, or Goddess, or Mother/Sister/Daughter to have your respect. I want to be acknowledged as roughly fifty percent of the population. I am equally human, so don’t force me to play the Bitch card just to be equal.
Keep your eyes closed. Pretend it’s all going back to the way it was. Feel free to take that risk. Just be aware that if you keep trying to force that golden bikini on us, we have new role models, and we will wrap that chain around your throat and pull.
If we choose to put that golden bikini on, for you, for an evening, that’s another story…
(Dammit, I’m back to erotica. Again!)